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Welcome to the official beginning of Culver’s
110th year.
We have a tradition here at Culver of calling
together students, faculty, and staff for a convocation
to signal the start of our time as the newest Culver
Academies community.
We take a few minutes to celebrate our
connectedness and our interdependence.
If you are new—welcome to Culver.
If you are returning—welcome back.
You students represent potential for the future;
you faculty and staff represent the wisdom, experience,
and dedication to make the future exciting. Each of us
has something special to share with Culver whether you
realize it yet or not. I hope and expect you will share your gifts with our
community during the next 10 months. This will be an
exciting year as we work, learn, and grow together.
At an all-school meeting last January I shared
with many of you my New Year’s resolutions.
Among them was my commitment to read more
literature. I
explained that while I read a number of professional
journals and periodicals, regularly, I had not
disciplined myself successfully to read the fiction and
non-fiction that edifies and inspires me.
That is, after all, what good stories do for us.
They remind us of universal truths and help us gain
perspective on our lives.
Mrs.
Buxton and I love to read. We are committed to the habit of reading and we have done
everything we can to pass this on to our children and
grandchildren. We
always give at least one book to them on their
birthdays, and it is such a part of the fabric of our
family that our daughter, who is pregnant with her first
baby, and her husband read to her stomach every night
– currently it is Harry Potter that this very little
one is hearing about.
It’s never too early to begin—or too late to
start.
When I was an admissions director at a highly
competitive boarding school, alumni with young children
would often call to ask what they might do to ensure
that their children would be well-prepared for a
selective boarding school or college.
I always replied in the same way:
Make sure they read as much as possible.
So maybe I was only resolving to do something I
love to do and see the value of. Maybe it was not the most challenging resolution, but it was
important nonetheless.
I stand before you now to report on my progress.
In a word – inspirational.
I was inspired by the lessons in humanity and the
power of stories. I
became even more aware of the importance of perspective
as we see the world and create our own stories.
I have done such a good job with my resolution,
there is not time to share all the books, details, or
lessons I have enjoyed, but I want to give you a
snapshot, focusing on a few of these stories and what I
have learned.
First
novel: I was inspired by Pat Conroy’s honesty and
compassion in “My Losing Season,” his story of his
time as a member of The Citadel’s basketball team,
revisited 45 years later. Conroy discovered what the philosopher Kierkegaard suggested
to us: “Life must be understood backward.
But it must be lived forward.”
Sometimes we need understand where we’ve been,
so we can understand whom we are and where we are going.
If we could only know the outcome before the
action, life would be much simpler.
Conroy went back to his college playing days to
try to understand his role and the roles played by
others during that time of his life. He needed to put
into perspective his emotions, his experiences, his
relationships, and the consequences of his decisions.
He came to understand what his citadel story had
meant to him throughout his life. His was a story about
losing too many games and learning from them.
More importantly, for me it was the realization
that the people we live with and work with, and with
whom we share the journey, shape our lives in
significant ways.
Reflect for a moment as you sit in this chapel.
Why you are you at Culver?
You must have a reason.
Are you clear about what is it?
What motivates you?
Is it related to where you have been?
Or where you are going?
What will you be looking back on in 25 or 50
years? Will
you have taken advantage of the opportunities here?
I hope so.
Consider also how the actions and values of other
members of this community will influence you and your
path to the future.
Do you alone control the outcomes?
Will colleagues, teachers, coaches, roommates,
department heads, residential life staff, or
administrators play a role? Of course they will.
Second novel: I was transfixed by the power of
Yann Martel’s story “Life of Pi.” Pi is a teenage
boy who grows up watching and studying the dual worlds
of religion and zoology as a zookeeper’s son in India.
His story is of his adventure while adrift in a
lifeboat with a most unusual crew when the ship carrying
his family to their new home in Canada and transporting
some of their zoo animals, including a zebra, tiger,
hyena, and orangutan, sinks.
His story is of faith, survival, and
reconciliation, and it reminded me how necessary stories
are to support us and to help sustain our beliefs,
especially in difficult times.
Pi’s
voyage and his perspective on it reinforced for me the
importance of stories in giving us a sense of purpose
and connection.
We are a community that has as rich a tradition
of stories as any secondary school in the country.
You new students have just heard one of the best
– the Logansport Flood story – as part of your
matriculation process.
Returning students and staff and faculty already
know it, or certainly should.
In the winter of 1913, Culver cadets rescue 1400
citizens of the town of Logansport from raging flood
waters using 28-foot summer crew boats.
Selfless and heroic?
Yes. But
how could I put this into perspective 70 years later? I
met a man two summers ago at a dinner and he told me he
had been born in Logansport. So I asked him what he knew
about the flood. I
was simply looking for another perspective on the event
to help me understand the importance of the story to
Culver. He paused and said, “Without your students, I would not be
here today. My
grandmother was a baby and she and her mother, my
great-grandmother, were stranded on one of those
rooftops. Culver
students rescued them just before the waters overcame
them. She
recorded the story in her diary.”
More recently I was at a national conference and
the keynote speaker, noted educational theorist Tom
Sergiovanni, was discussing the importance of stories in
organizations. Our
stories, he explained, represent the shared values that
define our communities. Share your school’s stories, he told us, in an effort to
build your sense of community.
We
dispersed to break out sessions and our group leader
asked if anyone had a good story to share that was
representative of his or her school’s values or
mission. I
proceeded to tell the Logansport Flood story.
The room went silent and people began averting
their eyes. No
one wanted to be next.
What could they do for an encore?
People said later, “We were planning to talk
about restoring the old headmaster’s home or bringing
technology to the classroom. Those things suddenly
seemed pretty insignificant.”
But we at Culver could have chosen from among
many stories:
Ø The
Big Fire
Ø The
Great Robbery
Ø The
gift of the Legion Memorial Building
Ø The
Black Horse Troop
Ø Culver’s
5 Medal of Honor winners
Our
stories are rich, as are our traditions:
Ø Graduating
through the Arch or Iron Gate
Ø Gold
Star Ceremony
Ø Mary
Francis England day
Ø Veterans’
Day ceremony
Ø The
Ringing ceremony
Ø Beason
Hall and its sacred lawn
Ø Officers’
Figure
Ø Senior/First
Class ring
As
Pi demonstrated, we can view our stories as confirmation
of the triumph of the human spirit or see them less
positively.
For
instance, might not some objective observer interpret
the Logansport Flood story as a tale of selfish
promotion of the school or reckless disregard for the
safety of our students?
“Send them to Logansport and we will make the
national news.” We do have options about how we make sense of what we do.
Casting things in a positive light is the Culver
way. We
have a choice.
And now, here comes “Seabiscuit” – the
book, not the movie. Laura Hillenbrand’s story of the unlikely miracle horse of
the Depression era is an appropriate read for all Culver
people. The
direct connection is interesting:
Seabiscuit’s owner, Mr. Charles Howard, is a
past Culver parent.
His son, Charles Jr., graduated from in Culver in
1936, just the time of Seabiscuit’s incredible journey
to American legend and icon.
The indirect connection is that, depending on
your perspective, “Seabiscuit” is a story full of
Culver values.
“Seabiscuit” is a story of determination,
willingness to risk, loyalty, teamwork, and trust.
It’s a story about the American dream and the value of
a meritocracy.
Seabiscuit is a horse with great natural talent
who would rather sleep and eat than work hard.
In the right environment, however, Seabiscuit
responds well. He
needs to trust those working with him so he can give
fully of himself. Sounds
like at least a few students I’ve known in my life.
Enter the trainer (Smith) and the jockeys
(Pollard and Woolf) who can challenge and support
Seabiscuit. They
are the teachers and coaches for this horse who has
greatness within him.
But they also need to trust him and one another
in order to reach their goal. They must all work
together to create the culture of success so they can
overcome the challenges and unforeseen disappointments
and stay on course.
They are determined and they are persistent –
certainly important traits – but they prevail because
of their teamwork and their commitment to each other.
The story of Seabiscuit cautions us not to judge
too quickly because of appearances or labels.
This not too impressive looking horse,
Seabiscuit, takes on the perfect horse, War Admiral, in
a match race, one on one, for racing’s top honor.
But parentage and reputation prove less important
than heart and performance.
The lesson: Never discount any one or any thing
on the basis of superficial measures.
My
list is far from complete, but my remarks are not.
I will end them with a few words about a novel I
received for my last birthday (remember the gift
tradition). My son gave me a copy of “A Bell for Adano,”
by John Hersey, a Pulitzer-Prize-winning novel written
in 1946. It
is a timeless study of leadership and human relations.
A U.S. Army major is given control of a small
town in Italy as part of the Allied takeover at the end
of World War II. The
Fascists have been driven from power and the Allies are
setting up new governments for the people.
The young major has been given a rule book full
of S.O.P.’s for leadership, but he does not have time
or the inclination to study them, so he relies on what
he has learned in his own training: Take care of your
people first.
In one noteworthy scene, the townspeople of Adano
are lined up to get their bread allocation at a local
bakery and an Italian officer left over from the
previous regime by-passes the line, as he has always
done to take care of his needs first.
The major, waiting his turn at the back of the
line, observes this behavior and corrects it
immediately. Later
in the day he calls together all of his officers and
explains that regardless of what they have learned
previously, the major’s requirements for leadership
are simple: “Consider yourself their servant. You are here to serve them.
That’s what leaders do.
Serve those they lead.”
The major also learns an important lesson about
leadership when he realizes that the peoples’ town
bell, one that has marked the rhythms of their lives for
200 years was taken as part of the war effort and melted
down for ammunition.
The town elders advise him that if he really
cares about making things right in the town, he will
find a way to replace the bell. He cannot imagine this
mostly symbolic gesture can be as important as getting
food, supplies, and new programs for the town.
He learns, however, when he replaces the bell,
that caring for their hearts is central to his
responsibility as a leader.
“A
Bell for Adano” is a primer on leadership: Model the
behavior you expect.
Build trust, cultivate relationships, but as
importantly, understand the power of symbols and
tradition in a community.
I have thought hard about this compelling story.
So what about your stories--not just the ones you
have read but also the one you have created and will
continue to write?
Every decision you make at a fork in the
proverbial road, at the bottom of a long hill you have
to climb, when you trip and fall, or, like Seabiscuit,
are well in the lead but not fully challenged, will
become a part of your story.
You play the most central role in your history.
Remember, you are here for a reason.
You have things you want to achieve.
Keep your destination in mind as you do.
And know – also - there are many others who
will influence how successful your story will be – for
we will all be a part of each other’s experiences. And
depending on how fairly and objectively we judge one
another, how positive our perspective remains, or how
determined we are to bring out the best in each other,
we all will determine the kind of story we craft.
Will we see our responsibility as leaders and
friends to serve others first, to care for their hearts,
and respect their stories?
We have an opportunity this year to write the
next chapter of the Culver story.
Our year will definitely be chronicled, as will
your personal story; regardless of how well we do.
And our stories will be intertwined.
I know that by working together we can create a
culture of positive, shared values that will carry
Culver and us to new heights.
We all have a role in this process, and each of
us has a responsibility to care for this storied school
and for one another.
I look forward to working with you on this most
important resolution.
We begin the year with a very full school and
that is a good way to begin, but the size of Culver is
not nearly as important as what we accomplish as we work
together. Let’s create a great story.
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